Have you ever been out on a date and wondered: why are we out on a date then? I’m pretty sure we have all asked ourselves that question because we find ourselves on a date with someone who has totally different intentions that we do, i.e. she’s looking for a relationship but he isn’t. Fellas, it might be a good idea to get to know the type of relationship that she is looking for BEFORE you take her out on a date. Usually if a woman is looking for a relationship, that means she is looking for a committed relationship, not a FWB or a casual sex partner. If a guy tells you he isn’t looking for a relationship, he isn’t. So don’t think by sleeping with him or hanging out with him that you will change his mind. So what does it usually mean when a guy tells you he isn’t looking for a relationship while out on a date? Well, in my opinion, it means that he is out on a date to feel you out/ buy his way into your pants. Why else would he waste his time if he clearly knows before he even asks you out that he is not looking for a relationship? If what you are looking for wasn’t disclosed prior to the first date, it is a good idea to discuss it while out on the first date so that everyone knows where each others intentions lie and where it will possibly lead to in the future.