…that you’re intelligent, beautiful, a good person inside and out, amazing, thoughtful, caring, etc, than why waste your time proving it to him? I hear so many women say “If only he can see that I’m…” or “I’m going to prove it to him.” Proving yourself is what dating is all about, the both of you are getting to know each other. If you have been dating someone and he can’t see by your actions and words that you already posses those qualities than maybe hes not the person for you. If he can’t see the person you are than he is either blind, hasn’t been listing to you, not looking for a relationship, or you might just need help dating/presenting yourself. In dating, the first date is crucial. You only have one shot to make a good impressions so make it count! If you blow it and he doesn’t see the good in you, learn from your mistakes and don’t repeat them. I firmly believe that everyone is not for everybody, that’s life. You might like him but he might not like you or see you in the same light, but that doesn’t mean you have to do extra things or put in more work to get him to see those things about you. Don’t you want a guy to like you for being yourself and not who your trying to be?