Learning to love the RIGHT man can be difficult when you have done nothing but love the WRONG man. Loving the WRONG man is similar to that habit you can’t seem to break. You know its bad for you, but you keep doing it because its a habit that you have been doing for years. Unfortunately bad habits are hard to break, but it has to be done to preserve your sanity. If you continue to love the WRONG man, you will almost always be left broken hearted. You can’t change the WRONG man and make him the RIGHT man. He has to want to do that on his own, and until he changes or realizes the error of his ways, the best thing for you to do is move on. Sure, learning to love the RIGHT man after years of loving the WRONG man is easier said than done, but its worth a try. Its always easier to fall back on old habits because that’s what your used to but if you always take the same road in relationships, you might never get to experience something new that’s worth perusing. How many women do you know that always say they want a good man, but when he comes along they pass him up for stupid reasons? How many of your friends say they want a relationship but keep going back to MR. WRONG, hoping that he will change? Sure, MR. RIGHT might not fit every criteria on your “list” but does he meet the majority of them? Does he treat you good? Do his actions match up with his words? That is what’s REALLY important.
We all make mistakes, but it is your responsibility to LEARN from your mistakes. If you just keep making the same mistakes over and over again, you will never learn and end up with the same results.