Let it go. No need for drawing out something that clearly cannot be fixed or repaired. You can’t put band aids or tape over something forever. Eventually whatever you are trying to hold together is going to fall apart. That goes for life and electronics.
Sometimes relationships; whether friendships, family ties, or romantic relationship, are not meant to last. I once read something that said people come into your life for a reason, season, or a lifetime. Sometimes those reasons are to help you grow, help you get through something, or to provide you with something good and long lasting. You never know why a person came into your life until they are gone. So enjoy the time you have with them, learn and grow because in the end you will figure out why that person came into your life.
Like Joel Olsteen said, once that person is gone, let them go because God placed them there to serve a purpose. Once that purpose has been served and the person is gone, don’t try to chase them or bring them back. You have to just let it go. If a person comes into your life for a reason or season, don’t try to make them a lifetimer. Sometime a person might come into your life and cause you pain or heart ache, but you cannot be discouraged, you have to learn from that person and move forward with those new life lessons. No one has life figured out, but every day is a new experience and an opportunity to live and learn, try to squeeze some laughing in too. Cheers to ending old relationships and to the beginning of good, new long lasting relationships!
Below is the Reason, Season, and Lifetime piece that I would like to share with you.
Reason, Season and Lifetime
People always come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.
When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.
When someone is in your life for a REASON,
it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty,
or to provide you with guidance and support,
to aid you physically, emotionally, or even spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend to you, and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they just walk away.
Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.
When people come into your life for a SEASON,
it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.
And like Spring turns to Summer and Summer to Fall,
the season eventually ends.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons;
those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (anyway);
and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas in your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
Thank you for being part of my life.